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Most of what gets written about this is either clinical enough to be useless or coy enough to say nothing. These are the questions women actually ask us, answered the way we would answer them across a counter.
None of it is medical advice, and we say so where it matters.
- Moisturizer or lubricant, and when you need bothA moisturizer goes on a schedule whether or not sex happens. A lubricant goes on at the time, for friction. Buying the wrong one is why women give up on the whole category.
- Vaginal and vulvar dryness after menopauseDryness after menopause is very common, and almost nobody is warned about it in advance. Some of what helps is on our shelf and some of it is only available from a doctor.
- Air pulse or vibration, and which one suits youAir pulse moves a pocket of air against the clitoris without pressing on it. Vibration shakes the skin it touches. Women who cannot stand one often like the other.
- How to clean and store what you ownWarm water and a mild soap really do clean body-safe silicone, because nothing soaks into it. The mistakes that ruin a device happen afterward, at the charging port and in the drawer.
- The pelvic floor after birth, in plain languagePregnancy loads the pelvic floor for months before any birth happens, which is why the work of rebuilding it takes months too.
- Choosing a first vibrator, and what to ignoreThe choice that decides this is not brand or price. It is what kind of touch you want, and nobody can tell you that in advance, this shop included.
- What is in a lubricant, and what to do when one stingsA lubricant that stings is not a verdict on you, and the ingredient list is where the answer starts. We publish the list every maker publishes and leave a blank where one does not, which today means two of our three lubricants show no list at all.
- What body-safe silicone means, and how to checkBody-safe describes a material, not a certificate anybody issues. Nobody audits the phrase, so what you are relying on is the material, and you can check that by hand.
- Traveling with a vibrator, and what happens at securityIt goes in the bag that stays with you, because the battery is inside it, and the officer at the scanner has seen one before. The part that deserves real attention is the law where you are landing, and that is the part no shop can keep an accurate list of.
- Sex after a baby, and what to ask at the postpartum visitWhen you are ready for sex again belongs to whoever provided your care, not to a shop. What a shop can do is explain why dryness is so common afterward and hand you the words for a short visit.
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