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Arousal oils, body oils, and what they do on skin

An arousal oil is put on the clitoris for sensation, and a body oil is worked into skin for slow touch. Neither is a substitute for a water-based lubricant.

Bottles on an intimate care shelf get grouped together as if they all do the same job. They do not. A topical arousal oil is made to sit on external tissue for localized sensation, a body oil is made to absorb into skin during slow touch across the body, a daily moisturizer is made for ongoing vulvar hydration, and a water-based lubricant is made to stop friction during sex.

Knowing which bottle is which saves you from putting a botanical oil near a latex condom or buying a warming arousal oil when what you actually needed was slip.

Topical arousal oil, body oil, and daily care on our shelf

We carry four botanical formulas from Foria and one water-based lubricant from System JO, and each bottle has a distinct job.

FormulaBottle and makerWhat the maker statesPublished ingredients and allergen note
Foria Awaken Arousal Oil1 fl oz applicator bottle, ForiaTopical oil with organic botanicals applied externally to invite blood flow and sensation; CBD-free formulationOrganic MCT coconut oil, kava root, cinnamon, ginger, vanilla, cardamom, peppermint, and cacao absolute; contains coconut oil (listed as a tree nut)
Foria Everyday Body Oil3.9 fl oz bottle, ForiaDaily body oil with organic botanicals that absorbs into skin after a shower or during slow touchSunflower, jojoba, sweet almond, rosehip, calendula, olive, castor, and sea buckthorn oils, plus pine, orange, lavender, and frankincense; contains sweet almond oil (a tree nut)
Foria Everyday Vulva Moisturizer1.7 fl oz pump bottle, ForiaHormone-free daily external moisturizer for vulvar skin, menopause, and postpartumCoconut oil, sunflower oil, cocoa butter, jojoba, shea, candelilla wax, avocado oil, sea buckthorn, and vitamin E; contains coconut oil (listed as a tree nut)
Foria Hydrating MeltsIndividually wrapped suppositories, ForiaInternal vaginal hydration with organic botanicals, hormone-free and fragrance-freeOrganic coconut oil, organic cocoa butter, and organic sunflower lecithin; contains coconut oil (listed as a tree nut)

Look at the practical differences across those bottles.

First, sensation versus daily hydration. Foria's Awaken Arousal Oil uses kava, cinnamon, ginger, cardamom, and peppermint in organic MCT coconut oil to invite warmth and blood flow when applied externally before touch; when Awaken is out of stock at our supplier warehouses, its product page says so plainly. By contrast, Everyday Vulva Moisturizer and Hydrating Melts have no warming spices or essential oils and are used on a schedule for ongoing hydration.

Second, allergen notes on the label. All four Foria formulas carry their complete maker-published ingredient lists on their product pages. Everyday Body Oil contains sweet almond oil, and the other three Foria formulas contain coconut oil, which Foria lists under its tree nut warning.

Neither an arousal oil nor a body oil is a full-length lubricant for internal sex or silicone toys. You apply a small amount of Awaken Arousal Oil externally to the clitoris and wait a few minutes to see how the warming feels on your skin, and you still reach for a water-based lubricant when you want slip.

The condom and lubricant rules that never bend

Whenever an oil is on the nightstand, two rules apply.

Try a small amount first, and know when to call a doctor

Botanical oils use plant extracts and essential oils such as peppermint, cinnamon, ginger, or kava to create sensation on external skin. What feels pleasantly warm to one woman can feel too strong or irritating to another.

Start with a tiny dab on external skin only, and never put a spiced clitoral arousal oil or a scented body oil inside the vagina. If a product stings, burns, or leaves you red and uncomfortable, rinse it off right away with plain lukewarm water and stop using that bottle.

If burning, itching, swelling, pain during sex, or unusual discharge persists after rinsing, talk with a doctor, a gynecologist, or a pharmacist, and take the bottle with you so your clinician can read the exact ingredient list on the label.

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